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    I live with my mother, brother,sister and of course my step father. I spend alot of time on the computer and for some reason he freaks the fuck out because of that and tells me to get off or he will break it and then my mom starts yelling back and shit. So then my step father just threatens to slit her throat or kill her in some way. He also blames me or my siblings for having a dirty ass house but he never cleans anything up and he lets his dog shit in the house and yells at me for it. I feel insecure living in the same house as him so what should I do... I know calling the police is an obvious answer but still. (sorry in advance for any bad grammar or spelling it's late at night and i'm about to go to sleep.)


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    @Byakuya, speak up. Don't live in silence, tell someone about it, do something.

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    if your old enough, then freaking beat his ass and tell him whoes in charge...
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    nah, don't do that, he could get pissed and do something really stupid.

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    Hes not your real dad. Kick his ass. Fuck him, tell your mom hes not a good ''father figure''. Fucking hate people who think there better then others.



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    Definetly speak up as SpaceForm said. Nothing is going to change if you don't talk to someone. Talk your mum and see how she feels about him in the house. If nothing really solves anything, consult with your teachers or a specialist normally helps settle things down.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Byakuya View Post
    So then my step father just threatens to slit her throat or kill her in some way.
    he's willing to do that if he threatens it, speak up, asap

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hiimnew View Post
    he's willing to do that if he threatens it, speak up, asap
    This is why you don't fight back. He'll do something to get back at you, this isn't something you want to happen. If the guy is as bad as you say he is, he needs to get removed from you life.

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    Why is your mother still with him? If he really is that crazy, he'll have no problem trying to hurt you or even killing you since you're not his son. Honestly I would call the cops if he threatens anyone in your house again.

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    Only get violent if he gets violent first. because if in fact he overpowers you, theres nothing you can do about it because you became violent first.

    Regardless, I went through the same shit and I basically told him upfront that hes not my father and that he has no say over what i do and what I dont do. Tell him you respect him as a person but to just fuck off when it comes to your personal life.

    This only really works if you're over the age of 16 when threatening to moveo ut really has weight.
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    Have you ever tried speaking with this man about the situation? Is it at all possible that he is threatened by a computer? Many older people are afraid of computers because they have enough exposure to them. That being said, if you can not communicate with him, you have to seek help (teacher, law, even neighbors). Your mom also needs to realize that if he is saying these things that he is not someone to grow up around.
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    Talking solves nothing, violence is the answer.
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    He probably doesn't want you to communicate with other 'external' forces. Also if things get out of hand just do what you have to do. He is biologically not your father so he has no authority over you.

    Must be bad having an abusive step-parent, but justice and the truth always comes true.


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    Been wondering, does he shout at the family when he's drunk or just sober? Well both ways if he's angry then there's something or some part of his life he's trying to forget and taking it out on anger. This is always the case most of the time I guess.

    Try to talk to your dad I guess if the other suggestions above fails.. It might be work related from being working too hard or something to do with stress.

    Good luck figuring out your family problems :)

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